Saturday, February 13, 2010

Only a matter of time

I tried my best but I've always known it was only a matter of time before Abigail learned about princesses. And lets just say she has now been thoroughly exposed. I'm not a girly girl and I've always been a bit annoyed with all the princess stuff marketed towards little girls. So I have purposely not bought Abigail any princess toys or let her watch any princess movies. The only princess she knew anything about was Princess Presto on Super Why (a kids show on PBS) and since she has the "power to spell" I'm totally down with her. Well all my efforts went down the drain on Friday evening when Abigail was given a set of Disney Princess shoes and a box full of Disney Princess dress up clothes at her birthday party. She went nuts for those things, what is with that!? I mean I don't get it...she immediately said things like "ohhhh fancy shoes," "I look beautiful," "shoes match Mama?" She was of course adorable and I had to play along but I found it pretty amazing how she just knew what to do and how to act once she got those princess clothes and shoes on. So she now knows the names of Cinderella, Snow White, Belle, Sleeping Beauty and Ariel even though she's never seen any of the movies. I guess this is going to be first of many things my kids are exposed to that I don't have control over and I need to just get used to it. I just don't like how the princess' always have to be rescued by a man and they are always so concerned with her appearance. These are not things I want my little girls to be concerned about.... I'm probably being overprotected and thinking too much but seriously I just am not into princesses. I'm hoping this is just a phase for Miss Abigail, but I don't know she seems to be in love.



I love this one because she had been trying to run around the in the princess shoes and I told her to slow down and she then went and put her "fast shoes" on. Maybe she'll be ok after all. :)


4 comments:

Megan said...

Oh, boy. This is something I will struggle with if we ever have a daughter.

But hey, "fast shoes"? It seems like she gets that you can be smartly feminine. You guys will teach her as such.

Still. Good luck. Eesh.

Melissa said...

the whole 'princess' thing we struggle with too here! we let our girls dress up but we dont focus on the princess part and so far it has worked out for us.

i love the whole 'fast shoes'....very cute :)

Ms. Mayhem said...

I use the word fancy instead of pretty alot. She asks if it's pretty and I say oh, you look fancy. As much as Kate is a bit of Tomboy, apparently her love for princesses, pink, purple, crowns, and wands is apparently hardwired into her DNA. Welcome to the club Abigail!

Stefanie said...

You ARE married to your "prince," though... ;)